There is a terrible myth going around that if a person is constantly being drawn into a bad and abusive relationship after having been in only that kind of relationship before, it’s because that’s what they are used to and comfortable with and also that they would rather be in a bad relationship than in no relationship.

This kind of thinking is what is destroying our faith in ourselves, as well as our faith in the so-called professionals who are trying to help us. Nothing could be further from the truth, because it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that a bad, abusive relationship is not comfortable and hardly something to get used to.

When you are drawn back into one bad relationship after another, it is simply the law of attraction working against you, instead of for you. You are getting precisely what you are focusing on and this is exactly how the law of attraction works.

Let’s take this a step further and say that whatever kind of energy you create or put out will determine what you attract. So if you are mostly negative, you will attract or draw back to you mostly negative things. If you are mostly positive, then you will attract or draw back to yourself mostly positive things. And if you can manage to put out only positive energy, it doesn’t really matter what you think about, because your huge bubble of positive energy will only attract more of this same positive energy back to you. Now just imagine what it’s like if you only put out negative energy.

There is another aspect to having a huge bubble of positive energy surrounding yourself that I haven’t discussed yet, and it has to do with ridding yourself of unwanted things. Let’s suppose that you are out driving in your car and you are approaching an intersection where you have no traffic lights and it is typically a challenging place to pull out across a heavy flow of on-coming cars. You can simply acknowledge this fact as you are on your way to this place and imagine it being what it normally is, a difficult place to pull out. Somehow, your positive energy will clear it up for you and produce quite the opposite of what you imagined. I have used this technique numerous times and it always works for me. The situation will become a piece of cake, so to speak, with nothing to challenge you or even make you uncomfortable.

Once you have decided to eliminate all negative aspects from your life and replace them with positive ones, you will begin to rid yourself of bad relationships, as well as all other negative things that previously occupied your life and your space. And if someone you normally see in a particular place, such as a person you want to avoid who perhaps works in a store you shop in, imagine them being there and giving you a hard time or making it difficult for you to go there. If the energy you create is as positive as you can possibly make it, you will cause negative situations to dissolve by using this method. The person will either not be there or will be occupied with something else so that you don’t even have to deal with them.

This whole process of being aware of the effects of creating only positive energy is what I call Positive Awareness. It is such an awesome state of being to have because of what you can create with it, as well as what you can eliminate from your life. Positive Awareness will also protect you from potentially dangerous situations, because as your positive energy bubble continues to grow, you begin to learn how to use it to control your environment, creating the good things you want and dissolving the bad things you don’t want.